October - Nuns


Live in a Buddhist Nunnery Every Day



I lived in a Buddhist nunnery every day in October.


There are thousands of Buddhist monks in Thailand walking around every day.


But there are only about 200 nuns.


Through Workaway I was able to volunteer at The Vijja Vipasannaram Foundation for one month.


At 3pm on weekdays, all the volunteers ( Hungarian girl, old German man, 2 French girls, Chilean girl,
young German boy, me) would assemble to ask the head nun any question at all about Buddhism.


She is from Thailand, and lived for decades in Germany working as an architect.
She has perfect English.
After moving back to Bangkok and being in a leadership role at a big company, her growing dedication
to the path of Buddhism led her to be ordained as a nun. 


She told us the Buddhist creation story  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Agga%C3%B1%C3%B1a_Sutta 
Read (The Beginning of Life on Earth)








And she was always relaxed, open, and unthreatened by our questions. She was humble and
confident, and almost everything (except for the creation story) made wonderful, logical sense.


My dad asked me on a Whatsapp call, “So are you going to become a Buddhist?” 
I thought about it and said, “I don’t think so, I’m actually farther away from being Buddhist than when
I came…..” 


I’ve been in Thailand 3 months, and I keep asking Thai people (taxi drivers, new friends at bar,
people in hostels) if they are Buddhist.

Most of them say yes.


But few of them do meditation or follow the 8-fold path.


So far, it seems that the mass of Thai people are about as Buddhist as the mass of American
people are Christian.


But what does it mean to be a “real” Christian?


What does it mean to be a “real” Buddhist?


Are only pastors, small group leaders, and missionaries given the “real Christian award”?
Are only monks and nuns doing Buddhism for real?


In Buddhism, the monks and nuns believe that the people will eventually, in next lives,
work their way towards being a monk/nun, then become enlightened. It just takes time.
Multiple lives. And if they aren’t up for it right now, no worries they’ve got time.


In Christianity there is Hell.
Everyone has 1 chance to make the half-court shot, and if they miss it, they’re stuck in hell forever. 

In Christianity it's salvation through belief
(that Jesus rose from the dead and is ruling the universe.)
In Buddhism it's salvation through meditation.
(meditate alot and you will eventually reach nirvana)

Salvation.

We need to be saved.
We are not okay.
We all agree that no one is perfect.

But we disagree on the formula, the cure for imperfection.

Christianity, Buddhism, exercise, food, porn, Netflix, buttered popcorn, ice cream, yoga, basketball, knitting, yard work, cleaning your room, walking your dog, going fishing, martial arts, biking, swimming. 

Really any of these will work.   


Some are better than others.


Choose wisely!


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Comments

  1. This is amazing. I enjoy your thought process about all of this. Sounds like you're having formative experiences, and that is good.

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    1. happy to share! thanks for the encouragement :)

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  2. Hi Joe, I certainly can enjoy a great many things on your list that bring satisfaction, joy, pleasure even meaning AND I can admit they can be distractors that lead me to avoid life, relationships, my own negative thoughts and feelings, responsibilities, shame. What do they say......Too much of a good thing?

    However, lumping Christianity or Buddhism with the other things seems like a leap that misses their essence and value. I guarantee devoting an hour to porn vs an hour in meditation or prayer everyday will not produce the same results, ie, cure for imperfection.

    That of course leads one to ask, just what is imperfection? Does it even need a cure? Is imperfection bad? Who decides? Which/whose measure is being used?

    Great thoughts!! I've always enjoyed my talks with you.

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    1. I totally agree with you that Buddhism and Christianity are much more robust systems of meaning than something like "soccer" or "cooking", but I think some people truly value their sports teams more than their religion for example.......

      I LOVE your questions "what is imperfection" "is it even bad"?

      And I think it's okay to not be able to answer those questions on this blog but to toss them around and keep thinking about it :)

      I wish you the best on your journey today my friend.

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  3. Jodie boy! LOVE the searching. LOVE the questioning. You're an artist. Keep expressing yourself. At some point, you arrive at the cliff's edge...and there are very few options left.

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